{"id":5939,"date":"2009-03-21T08:30:45","date_gmt":"2009-03-21T06:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/?p=5939"},"modified":"2009-03-21T08:30:45","modified_gmt":"2009-03-21T06:30:45","slug":"aysunun-babasi-konustu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/?p=5939","title":{"rendered":"Aysun’un babas\u0131 konu\u015ftu!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Aysun<\/p>\n

K\u0131z\u0131ma att\u0131\u011f\u0131m daya\u011f\u0131n \u00e7etelesini tutmad\u0131m<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcne kadar babas\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmayan Aysun Kayac\u0131’n\u0131n, ilk kez NTV’deki program\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klama, bir ailede ya\u015fanan dram\u0131 g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne serdi.<\/p>\n

\u00d6nceki ak\u015fam NTV’deki ‘Haydi Gel Bizimle Ol’ program\u0131nda babas\u0131 hakk\u0131nda ilk kez konu\u015fan Aysun Kayac\u0131’n\u0131n iddialar\u0131, magazin g\u00fcndemini sarst\u0131. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fundan beri kendisi, k\u0131z karde\u015fi ve annesinin babas\u0131ndan \u015fiddet g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc belirten Kayac\u0131, i\u00e7ini d\u00f6kt\u00fc:<\/p>\n

– Ben bunlar\u0131 arkamda b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f\u0131m ve elim ekmek tutmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan beri annemin kocas\u0131, k\u0131z karde\u015fimin babas\u0131 olmu\u015fum. Hatalar\u0131mla sevaplar\u0131mla. \u00c7ok yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131m ama yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 da kendim yapt\u0131m.<\/p>\n

– Beni en \u00e7ok \u00fczen medyan\u0131n sa\u00e7ma sapan, uydurulmu\u015f hikayeler anlatan bir adam\u0131 bu kadar \u00e7ok malzeme yapmalar\u0131, k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rtmalar\u0131, daha da \u00e7ok konu\u015fturmalar\u0131. Bir kere anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hikayelerin hi\u00e7 birisi do\u011fru de\u011fil.<\/p>\n

– Annem i\u015f\u00e7iydi, eve para getiriyordu ama o \u00e7al\u0131yordu. Benim dayak raporum, art\u0131 annemin dayak raporu, \u00fcst\u00fcne k\u0131z karde\u015fimin dayak raporu ile bo\u015fand\u0131 benim annem.<\/p>\n

– Hayat\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131ks\u0131n gitsin istiyorum. Duymak, g\u00f6rmek istemiyorum. Delirmek \u00fczereyim.<\/p>\n

– Deli sa\u00e7mas\u0131 \u015feyler anlat\u0131yor, bir hezeyanla. Bir de mikrofon uzat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda b\u00f6yle bir zaaf\u0131 var galiba. Ben bile mesle\u011fimden so\u011fudum. O kadar merakl\u0131, o kadar ekrana merakl\u0131 ki. Kendisi de inan\u0131yor anlatt\u0131klar\u0131na ve insanlar oradan beni de\u011ferlendiriyor. Ben magazinde her yerde g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum ve utan\u0131yorum. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015feyler akl\u0131ma geliyor. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m rezillikler geliyor akl\u0131ma.<\/p>\n

– Bunca ba\u015far\u0131m var, kendi kendime bir hayat kurdum, aileme bir hayat kurdum ama hala bu insandan kurtulamad\u0131m. Ete\u011fimden a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekiyor ve medya buna arac\u0131 oluyor.<\/p>\n

– \u0130nsanlar beni onun konu\u015fmas\u0131ndan ele\u015ftirmeye kalk\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Niye g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc duruyorum, g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6stermiyorum, gencim, yetenekliyim, komi\u011fim de s\u00fcperim ben. 10 y\u0131ld\u0131r bana ac\u0131mas\u0131nlar diye sustum ve adam anlatt\u0131k\u00e7a kendine inand\u0131, bi co\u015ftu yani.<\/p>\n

– O adam alkolik ve \u015fizofren. \u00d6d\u00fcm kopuyor onun gibi delirece\u011fim diye. O da i\u015fin ba\u015fka taraf\u0131.<\/p>\n

‘Baban\u0131n \u015fiddeti s\u00fcr\u00fcyor’ <\/strong><\/p>\n

Aysun Kayac\u0131’y\u0131 programda izleyen \u00fcnl\u00fc psikiyatr Nihat Kaya, \u015fu de\u011ferlendirmeyi yapt\u0131: Aysun \u00e7ocukluktan ba\u015flayan ve h\u00e2l\u00e2 devam eden \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6fkeli. Bir baba nas\u0131l b\u00f6yle olur diye \u00e7ok k\u0131z\u0131yor. Genelde alkoliklerin bir k\u0131sm\u0131nda zaman i\u00e7erisinde sinir sistemlerinde ciddi bozukluklar olur. Ki\u015filerin karakterlerinde kontrol bozuklu\u011fu ba\u015flayabilir. \u00d6z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na a\u011f\u0131r travmalar ya\u015fatabilir.”<\/p>\n

K\u0131z\u0131ma att\u0131\u011f\u0131m daya\u011f\u0131n \u00e7etelesini tutmad\u0131m<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aysun Kayac\u0131’n\u0131n babas\u0131 Selahattin Kayac\u0131, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n \u015fiddet iddialar\u0131na cevap verdi: “Ben k\u0131z\u0131ma ne kadar vurdum diye \u00e7etele tutmad\u0131m. Ben babamdan 500 kez dayak yemi\u015fimdir. Belki Aysun’a bir tokat vurmu\u015fumdur, bu kadar. Ben Aysun’un s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi \u015fiddet uygulasayd\u0131m Aysun 20 y\u0131l \u00f6nce dayaktan vefat etmi\u015f olmas\u0131 gerekirdi. Tabi ki benden rahats\u0131z olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc babas\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Halbuki o benim i\u00e7in \u00f6ld\u00fc diye a\u00e7\u0131klamalar yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Benim ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmam\u0131 istemiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun annesi kutsal bakire Meryem Ana. Aysun babas\u0131z m\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya geldi. Televizyona \u00e7\u0131kmak Aysun’un tekelinde de\u011fil. Semra Han\u0131m bile \u015f\u00f6hret oldu ben de televizyona \u00e7\u0131kabilirim. Benim televizyona \u00e7\u0131kmamam i\u00e7in k\u00f6r ve sa\u011f\u0131r olmam gerekir. Aysun bana maddi yard\u0131mda kesinlikle bulunmuyor. Maddi yard\u0131m yapsayd\u0131 ben ona g\u00f6re ya\u015fam s\u00fcrerdim. Bir annesine bak\u0131n bir bana bak\u0131n. Ben k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bir evde ya\u015f\u0131yorum.”<\/p>\n

Kaynak : Vatan Gazetesi<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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K\u0131z\u0131ma att\u0131\u011f\u0131m daya\u011f\u0131n \u00e7etelesini tutmad\u0131m<\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcne kadar babas\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmayan Aysun Kayac\u0131’n\u0131n, ilk kez NTV’deki program\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klama, bir ailede ya\u015fanan dram\u0131 g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne serdi.<\/p>\n

\u00d6nceki ak\u015fam NTV’deki ‘Haydi Gel Bizimle Ol’ program\u0131nda babas\u0131 hakk\u0131nda ilk kez konu\u015fan Aysun Kayac\u0131’n\u0131n iddialar\u0131, magazin g\u00fcndemini sarst\u0131. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fundan beri <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-magazin","odd"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5939"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5939\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}