{"id":4517,"date":"2009-03-02T15:51:07","date_gmt":"2009-03-02T13:51:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/?p=4517"},"modified":"2009-03-02T15:51:07","modified_gmt":"2009-03-02T13:51:07","slug":"kadin-esi-icin-isini-birakmali-mi-evet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/?p=4517","title":{"rendered":"&#039;Kad\u0131n e\u015fi i\u00e7in i\u015fini b\u0131rakmal\u0131 m\u0131: Evet&#039;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/03\/7a5b0ac4e0425e439086ad52x.jpg\"  class=\"lightview\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4518\" title=\"'Kad\u0131n e\u015fi i\u00e7in i\u015fini b\u0131rakmal\u0131 m\u0131: Evet' \" src=\"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/03\/7a5b0ac4e0425e439086ad52x.jpg\" alt=\"'Kad\u0131n e\u015fi i\u00e7in i\u015fini b\u0131rakmal\u0131 m\u0131: Evet' \" width=\"380\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">ABD&#8217;li kad\u0131n yazar Basham, &#8220;Her Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Erke\u011fin Arkas\u0131nda&#8221; adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda 21. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 Ba\u015fkan Obama ve e\u015fi \u00fczerinden yap\u0131yor. Basham, &#8220;Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk, \u00e7iftlerin ayn\u0131 noktaya birlikte bakmas\u0131d\u0131r&#8221; diyor..      <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/img.sabah.com.tr\/i3\/sp.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/> ABD Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Barack Obama&#8217;n\u0131n Harvard mezunu e\u015fi Michelle Obama ve eski \u0130ngiltere Ba\u015fbakan\u0131 Tony Blair&#8217;in e\u015fi Cherie Booth Blair&#8230; Her ikisi de bir devlet adam\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fi olman\u0131n manevi destek sorumlulu\u011funu kariyerlerini yar\u0131da keserek \u00f6dedi. Chicago&#8217;da bir hastanenin hukuk dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131lda 273 bin dolar maa\u015fla yaparken e\u015finin se\u00e7im kampanyalar\u0131 i\u00e7in i\u015finden ayr\u0131lan Michelle Obama, o d\u00f6nemde senat\u00f6r olan e\u015fi Barack Obama&#8217;n\u0131n iki kat\u0131 para kazan\u0131yordu. <!--more-->Blair&#8217;in e\u015fi Cherie Booth da First Lady&#8217;lik d\u00f6neminde hep ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir avukat profili yerine e\u015fine destek olan ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bakan iyi bir anne imaj\u0131 \u00e7izdi. \u0130\u015fte bu iki ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc piyasaya yeni \u00e7\u0131kan &#8216;Her Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Erke\u011fin Arkas\u0131nda&#8217; isimli bir kitab\u0131n yazar\u0131 Megan Basham&#8217;a, &#8220;Kad\u0131nlar e\u015flerine yard\u0131m etmek i\u00e7in kendi kariyer yolunda y\u00fcr\u00fcmekten vazge\u00e7meli mi?&#8221; sorusunu sordurttu. ABD&#8217;li yazar Basham kitab\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 tespitlerde, e\u011fitimli bir kad\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fine yard\u0131m etmek i\u00e7in i\u015finden ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 makul buldu\u011funu gerek\u00e7elerle anlat\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fte bir grup feministin tepki g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi kitapta, &#8220;E\u015finiz i\u00e7in i\u015finizi b\u0131rakmak kabul edilir bir tercihtir&#8221; tezinin dayand\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ekler:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>ARA\u015eTIRMAYA DAYANIYOR<br \/>\n<\/strong>Yale \u00dcniversitesi \u00f6\u011frencileri aras\u0131nda yap\u0131lan bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmada, k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frencilerin y\u00fczde 60&#8217;\u0131, \u00e7ocuk do\u011furduklar\u0131 zaman \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakmak arzusunda. Kad\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda erkekten daha \u00e7ok maa\u015f alabiliyor. Ancak bu genel olarak kad\u0131n\u0131n arzulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir durum. En e\u011fitimli, en \u00e7ok kazanan kad\u0131nlar bile bu konuda erke\u011fin kendisinden daha \u00fcst\u00fcn olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde. Bo\u015fanma davalar\u0131na bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kad\u0131nlar da en az erkekler kadar ayr\u0131lma teklifi yapabiliyor. Her ne kadar kad\u0131nlar kendilerini feminist olarak tan\u0131mlasalar da, en mutlu olduklar\u0131 zamanlar, aile gelirinin \u00fc\u00e7te ikisinin e\u015fleri taraf\u0131ndan kazan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlar. Erkeklerin maddi ve manevi a\u00e7\u0131dan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmas\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 daha mutlu ediyor. Bu da mutlu evlili\u011fin kilit noktalar\u0131ndan biri olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>FEM\u0130N\u0130ST TEPK\u0130<br \/>\n<\/strong>Basham, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n herhangi bir garantisi olmayan i\u015flerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, kocalar\u0131na kariyer se\u00e7imleri konusunda dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k yaparak, onlar\u0131 zay\u0131f ya da yetersiz olduklar\u0131 konularda uyararak, manevi destek sa\u011flayarak da kendilerini tatmin edebileceklerini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Basham kitab\u0131nda, &#8220;Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk yaln\u0131zca sevdi\u011finizin g\u00f6zlerine bakmak de\u011fildir. Ayn\u0131 noktaya birlikte bakmakt\u0131r. Obamalar i\u015fte ger\u00e7ekten bunu yap\u0131yor&#8221; diyor. Feminist gruplar ise kitaba tepkili. Basham&#8217;\u0131n kitab\u0131ndaki tezleriyle kad\u0131nlara erke\u011fin arkas\u0131nda 2&#8217;nci s\u0131n\u0131f muamelesi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia ederek k\u0131nama mesajlar\u0131 yolluyor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #888888;\">Kaynak : Sabah Gazetesi<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">ABD&#8217;li kad\u0131n yazar Basham, &#8220;Her Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 Erke\u011fin Arkas\u0131nda&#8221; adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda 21. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 Ba\u015fkan Obama ve e\u015fi \u00fczerinden yap\u0131yor. Basham, &#8220;Ger\u00e7ek a\u015fk, \u00e7iftlerin ayn\u0131 noktaya birlikte bakmas\u0131d\u0131r&#8221; diyor.. ABD Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Barack Obama&#8217;n\u0131n Harvard mezunu e\u015fi Michelle Obama ve eski \u0130ngiltere Ba\u015fbakan\u0131 Tony Blair&#8217;in e\u015fi Cherie Booth Blair&#8230; Her <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ekonomi","odd"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4517\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}