{"id":24534,"date":"2010-08-04T10:55:14","date_gmt":"2010-08-04T10:55:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/?p=24534"},"modified":"2010-08-04T10:55:14","modified_gmt":"2010-08-04T10:55:14","slug":"basbakana-3-esli-danisman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/?p=24534","title":{"rendered":"Ba\u015fbakan’a 3 e\u015fli dan\u0131\u015fman"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Niyeti “<\/strong>d\u00f6rde kadar gitmek”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Avrupa Milli G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f Te\u015fkilat\u0131 Genel Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapan, “\u015feyh\u00fclislam se\u00e7ilen”, Ba\u015fbakan Tayyip Erdo\u011fan’\u0131n dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na getirilen Ali Y\u00fcksel’in “\u00fc\u00e7 e\u015fli” oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Y\u00fcksel niyetinin “d\u00f6rde kadar gitmek” oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klarken \u00e7oke\u015flili\u011fini “s\u00fcnnet bir ibadet” olarak nitelendirdi. <\/p>\n

CHP Konya Milletvekili Atilla Kart\u2019\u0131n soru \u00f6nergesiyle eski Avrupa Milli G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f Te\u015fkilat\u0131 Genel Ba\u015fkan\u0131<\/strong>, Almanya\u2019da \u201c\u015feyh\u00fclislam se\u00e7ilen<\/strong>\u201d, AKP Grup Ba\u015fkanvekili Suat K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7\u2019\u0131n kay\u0131npederi<\/strong> oldu\u011fu belirtilen Ali Y\u00fcksel\u2019in Ba\u015fbakanl\u0131\u011fa dan\u0131\u015fman olarak atand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Gazeteci Fehmi \u00c7almuk\u2019un kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cMerak Edilen K\u0131zlar\u201d isimli kitapta, Y\u00fcksel \u00e7oke\u015flili\u011fin \u201ciyi ve zor yanlar\u0131n\u0131\u201d ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olarak anlatt\u0131. Kitapta, Y\u00fcksel\u2019in \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc e\u015fi Dilber Y\u00fcksel ile yap\u0131lan r\u00f6portaja da yer verildi.<\/p>\n

\u2018Her g\u00fcn birimizde\u2019 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Dilber Y\u00fcksel, e\u015fine 11 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u00e2\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klarken \u201c… O zamanlar beni etkileyen belki kocam\u0131n hali. Belki hayalimde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm e\u015fe uygun olmas\u0131. Bilmiyorum yani. Karakterini tan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, \u0130slami bir ya\u015fant\u0131s\u0131 varsa o etki yapar. Hepsi bir b\u00fct\u00fcn olarak beyaz atl\u0131 prenstir\u201d de\u011ferlendirmesini yapt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Yazar\u0131n \u201cBir de adil davranmas\u0131 var. Haftan\u0131n 7 g\u00fcn\u00fc var\u201d s\u00f6zleri \u00fczerine Dilber Y\u00fcksel, \u201cHer g\u00fcn birimizde. S\u0131rayla gidiyor. G\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7e b\u00f6lm\u00fcyor. Her g\u00fcn birimizde. S\u0131ra atlanm\u0131yor. Han\u0131mlar yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fu m\u00fcddet\u00e7e s\u0131ra atlanm\u0131yor\u201d diyerek, \u00e7oke\u015fli ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131n kural\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Ali Y\u00fcksel\u2019in d\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc evlili\u011fi yapmas\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l kar\u015f\u0131layaca\u011f\u0131na ili\u015fkinse Dilber Y\u00fcksel, \u201cEvlenmesin dersem haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapm\u0131\u015f olurum. Onun hakk\u0131d\u0131r. Ama han\u0131m olarak, onu seven biri olarak istemem. Zor. \u00c7ok k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r\u0131m\u201d s\u00f6zleri dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n

Yazar Fehmi \u00c7almuk\u2019un y\u00f6neltti\u011fi sorular ve Ali Y\u00fcksel\u2019in verdi\u011fi yan\u0131tlardan baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle:<\/p>\n

– \u00dc\u00e7 evlilik yapan sizsiniz. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcne de adaletli davranmak zorundas\u0131n\u0131z. Sizin ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc bir efor sarf etmeniz gerekmiyor mu?<\/p>\n

– … Duygular\u0131m\u0131 bir tarafa atarak e\u015fit davranmaya gayret ediyorum. Bunu da zannederim bir hayli ba\u015far\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

– Birinci evlilikte a\u015fk-sevgi s\u00f6ylenebilir, ama di\u011ferleri i\u00e7in bu biraz muhal (ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi olanaks\u0131z) gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor?<\/p>\n

– Yo. Asl\u0131nda insan\u0131n sevgisine s\u0131n\u0131r yoktur… Allah m\u00fcsaade etmi\u015f. Ben \u015f\u00f6yle dua ettim; Allah\u0131m bana bu konuda haram nasip etme, helalden mahrum etme demi\u015fimdir.<\/p>\n

– Zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hissediyor musunuz?<\/p>\n

– Oluyor tabii.. O zamanki haleti ruhiyesine ba\u011fl\u0131. Kafan\u0131za baz\u0131 \u015feyleri takm\u0131\u015f iseniz, meselelerin y\u00fck\u00fc alt\u0131ndayken baz\u0131 \u015feyler insana a\u011f\u0131r gelebiliyor.<\/p>\n

– Her g\u00fcn s\u0131ray\u0131 takip ediyorsunuz. Kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131yor musunuz? Elbiseleriniz de kar\u0131\u015f\u0131r….<\/p>\n

– Orada giydi\u011fim orada kal\u0131r, burada giydi\u011fim burada kalabilir.<\/p>\n

– D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc evlilik…<\/p>\n

– Ben iki evlendi\u011fim zaman dedim ki \u2018Benim niyetim d\u00f6rde kadar gitmek ama k\u0131smetim nedir, onu bilemem Allah bilir\u2019 dedim.<\/p>\n

– \u0130kinciyi al\u0131rken birinciye, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcy\u00fc al\u0131rken ikinciye dan\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131? \u0130zin ald\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131?<\/p>\n

– Hay\u0131r, izin almad\u0131m. \u0130zin vermezler ki… S\u00fcnnet bir ibadeti yapaca\u011f\u0131mda izin almak olur da, izin almak mecburiyetinde de\u011filim…( Cumhuriyet )<\/span><\/p>\n

Vatan
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Niyeti “d\u00f6rde kadar gitmek”<\/p>\n

Avrupa Milli G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f Te\u015fkilat\u0131 Genel Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapan, “\u015feyh\u00fclislam se\u00e7ilen”, Ba\u015fbakan Tayyip Erdo\u011fan’\u0131n dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na getirilen Ali Y\u00fcksel’in “\u00fc\u00e7 e\u015fli” oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Y\u00fcksel niyetinin “d\u00f6rde kadar gitmek” oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klarken \u00e7oke\u015flili\u011fini “s\u00fcnnet bir ibadet” olarak nitelendirdi. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[105],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gundem","odd"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=24534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24534\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=24534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=24534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.korhanyilmaz.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=24534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}